If you're worried about not being enough and not impressing people, not giving a big enough performance as my acting background would say, I would say that we are not thinking of the situation as a two way street. We blame ourselves, especially as children for our mistakes. When we make mistakes, no matter the size, we blame ourselves, as if we had all of the answers. The truth is that we have all of the love to give, and give it to yourself and those that give it back. That's all that you have to do. But you know what I mean, don't believe that you haven't given enough, or are normal enough. They're ridiculous, and feel like they're not enough. And no matter how great you are, they aren't so much mad at you, but mad at their perceived helplessness. I guess I have been feeling confused on how to communicate this to people, that I'm good enough to receive the love I give out. And now I know how, just stop explaining. Explain once, but really what you need to do, is not explain but do what you need to do. If they, whomever they may be, don't like it, then tough.